Support groups provide relief to cancer patients
All too often, people with cancer believe that support groups are only helpful to those who aren't coping well and that sharing feelings with strangers is uncomfortable and awkward. These beliefs, however, are anything but true. "Support groups universalize and validate a person's feelings, providing a sense of relief," says Virtua social worker Marietta Penska, MSW.
Sharing with people in similar situations is also a way to exchange practical information. "People are often surprised at how comfortable they are talking with those who are not emotionally involved in their situation," says Penska. "They can discuss their true feelings without the guilt of burdening family or friends." Support groups also fill the void that is left when treatment is completed. "People become panicked when their treatment concludes because there isn't a physician monitoring their health on a frequent basis," says Penska. Groups provide reassurance and help people feel less isolated and distressed. "It is believed," says Penska, "that group participation can increase longevity and enhance quality of life."
For cancer support groups and education programs, call toll-free 1-888-Virtua-3 (1-888-847-8823).